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The importance of communication is a relationship cannot be measured. You need to communicate and be understood by your partner if you want your needs met. The Importance of Communication In A Relationship

All relationships Have One Law: Never Make The One You Love Feel Alone, Especially When You’re There Do You Know The First Relationship Law?

Nagging, sexual freedom and openness, honesty and equality are all area men wished women would improve in. We tell it like it is. 5 Things Women Do That Men Don"t Like

Does you partner (or you) give up at the first sign of confrontation? Here’s why and what you should do about Flight or Fight Syndrome. What Is Flight or Fight Syndrome In A Relationship?

Some couples find themselves getting into a slump even at the extremely early stage of the relationship. For other couples ……… How To Keep A Marriage Fresh – After 2 Months Or 20 Years

Single parenting is notoriously hard on relationships, leading many single parents to have unhealthy relationships or no love life at all. How To Have a Healthy Romantic Relationship as a Single Parent

Any in life is improved by active cultivation. Romance and Love are no different. Here’s an easy to follow guide you can follow to get more. Romance and Love - How To Cultivate and Get More Relationship Balance

There are some struggles that come up in long distance relationships, but aren’t there struggles in relationships that are in the same town as well? Trust Is the Number 1 Deal Breaker in All Relationships. I have seen so many relationships fail for the lack of trust. Top 5 Ways to Make It In A Long Distance Relationship

I’ve known my wife for nearly seven years, and we’ve never argued. Ever. When I first noticed this, I was blown away, as this was completely new for me; every other relationship I had been in had involved conflict. A Successful Relationship

When it comes to improvements in our relationships, it’s always a good idea to have a few reminders. Reminders to keep us on track and maybe a few we’ve either forgotten about or even hadn’t thought about before. That’s what life is all about – improvement and... 7 Tips To Be A Good Spouse

When you understand personality types, you’ll gain insight in how to communicate with women better as well as men. Obviously a good thing for dating. How To Communicate Better with Women

My Love Story Today is our 3rd wedding anniversary – the official and loving togetherness that is the two of us. She is one of those rare people in the world that you’re instantly attracted to. It was the same for me and at a much deeper level. A one of utter love and admiration … and a certain ‘knowing’. Apart from her natural beauty, she has an aura that envelopes me in such a trusting way. [youtube_video]PW5ZbfZ0a1w[/youtube_video] The Journey We’re two individual people so you know as well as I do that there’s going to be a ‘rub’. We’ve had some disastrous disagreements – every couple does. That’s what we learn from and grow from, as a foundation. We have different value systems as well as those hormonal reactions. The Growth I still vividly remember those earlier days. During that first week, on our first face to face date in Bali, we truly believed (as we do now) that we were soul-mates forever . You might be...

Relationships are good and great times. There are also times you could just leave and say "forget this whole damn thing". This article is about the latter – when you could quite literally give up the past good times, out of utter and complete frustration. In hindsight, the solution... 8 Steps To Go From Disaster to Reborne

I know when I was dating, my male ego thought it would be marvellous to date younger women. After all, it’s one of those top male fantasies, ranking a little lower than the ‘threesome’ (which in itself is a silly fantasy as well)? The thought of dating someone much younger than... Should You Date Someone Younger?

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I come across a lot of my friends who ask very similar questions, in their troubled relationships. Both men and women, equally so these issues really are common to us all. So what are they? A lack of understanding would certainly be the first. The solution is plainly obviously, yet for many is challenging to implement. Consider we all come from vastly different backgrounds which all influence our behaviour as well as actions. So communication and the way we carry it out needs to be considered, on both sides. When we get into an argument, the situation usually lowers itself into a very toxic and unpleasant environment . I'm sure you've all been there and know what I'm talking. It's stifling. It's depressing. It's horrible. We need to better recognize when it devolves to this level and both work our way back to the top. The alternative is simply an end to what was once cherished and beautiful Ask honest and open ended questions. Yep, don't b...

I was checking out the google statistics on the GeekandJock.com site the other day. Mainly to determine what was being searched for the most or the major articles being viewed. To just give more of the same. What I found really interesting was the highest hit page revolved around male and female gspots and more interesting is its also the post with the smallest comment intersection. Two things though: I've already written an upcoming post on the male gspot which is missing from that particular article as well as a more comprehensive downloadable guide to both spots. And the second thing is I need to discover why people are so timid in commenting when it comes to sex or their own sexuality. Interesting. Maybe society is the real culprit like I wrote on about women ? Thoughts?

This looks just plain sad I remember when going out on a date was about discovering the other person. Through talking....remember that? I saw this picture float by the other day and it's true. I see this scene played out everywhere. Each is more interested in posting their 'out on a date' status update than actually updating themselves with who the other person is. Freaking sad if you ask me. What's your thoughts on dating and smartphones ?  

When it's all said and done, relationships are freaking tough going. You first get into one through a mutual attraction which is usually a visual one. For men, this is 99% true, for women, there are a few other consequential factors that form a foundation of stability. But at the end of the day, it's very much a personal choice rather than a mutual one. I mean, you get into a relationship from a purely selfish point of view. Guys might be sexual. Women might be security and/or protection and/or stability to raise kids. BUT when you're in a relationship , it can all fall terribly apart unless both people care enough for the other for the situation to be totally shithouse but still care enough to continue and move forward. Move forward to get things fixed because their love is mutual and their love is solid. Thoughts?