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Finding a Philippines girl might sound easy but it’s full of pitfalls. Discover the safe way from this real life account. Philippina dating done right. How to Find a Philippines Girl, The Safe and Right Way

True love is rare. Most of us get a glimpse of the magic before it’s lost again. Is it worth pain & emotional hurt to try again? YES so go get more! Love Is In The Air

Gratitude is a powerful force & we lose sight of it. Here’s a simple way to keep you on track with flowing gratitude & better mental strength. The Biggest Thing That Gets In The Way Of Gratitude Is ...

Look within your own self & discover it’s you that will be causing the majority of angst & heartache in making your relationship work, magically. Soulmates: How To Screw It All Up

Learn from my past life decisions. Is trusting good practice? Should you maintain strong attachments to people? Should you simply just ‘Go For It’? Learn. 3 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Born

Which Man Type Do You Like? Want some surfer dude? A man with a passion is always attractive, but a man whose living his passion is simply admirable, and sexy even. It means that he is audacious enough to really pursue what he loves doing and disciplined enough to strive for it. Athletes are known for this. And for women, meeting some of these physically attractive and mentally sharp individuals should be in their dating list. Learn more about passion, fun, and endurance as you get to know more about this must-meet types of male athletes. The Surfer Dude A guy whose hobbies include soaking under the sun and conquering the waves in nothing but boardshorts is cute enough, so a pro surfer is probably five times cuter! Not all ladies might dig this type of athlete, after all, he’s probably romancing the sea more than he should spending time with his girlfriend . But getting to know a surfer will allow you to create a deeper relationship with nature. Perhaps the best thing about surfi...

Behaving Badly or Just Poor Judgement? Let me start by first saying: “Violence towards anyone (be they man, woman or child) is plain wrong and can’t be tolerated by any society.” Why Male Bad Behavior? There’s a huge volume of publicised news around men behaving badly. I... Men Behaving Badly - Fact or Fiction?

“What’s your holistic message on relationships now and how does that differ from, say, 20 years ago?” Phil and Maude Mayes Maude : Our core message is that it is possible to have joyful, passionate, conflict free relationships. Twenty years ago this was a fantasy I had of relationships. Today it is a reality I live. Phil : The number one message is to let the other person be who they are. Don’t try to adjust or control them in any way. It never works in the long run; it leads to conflicts, it leaves the other person feeling unheard, unappreciated and under attack. In contrast , fully accepting the other person offers a space for them to grow, breathe, live and explore. Twenty years ago I could not have verbalized that, though to what extent I practiced it is hard to say. I know that in former relationships, I spent much energy defending and meeting my own needs. “What would you tell a young man about relationships?” Phil : I’ll start this by te...

Foundations of good relationships include trust, honesty, love, kindness, respect and mutual sharing, whether you have HIV or not. Find out how when HIV is involved. Relationship Advice If You Have HIV or AIDS

What’s Out There For ME? I remember the days of thinking that everything I had ever wanted was “out there somewhere”. The perfect body, financial situation and of course, partner were out of my reach and remained elusive. Maybe one day, luck would be in my corner and I would finally get everything my heart desired. If I were a good person, then perhaps life would reward me and fulfill my wishes. In fact, maybe I would even find “the one”. Yada yada yada… Was I Being Played With? If I could place an image to my ongoing quest for the perfect circumstances that never came my way, it would look like a dangling carrot. It was as if the Universe, with its superb sense of humor (at my expense of course) was intentionally toying with my emotions , by offering the promise of what I wanted only to taketh away once it seemed to be within my grasp. I can’t even begin to elaborate on the level of frustration that perspective caused me to experience. It...

My wife and I were talking about where our next holiday might take place and I was struck by the thought of 2 recent holidays we took. It was more along the lines of ‘Lifestyle happiness isn’t based on being a supposed 1st World Culture’ And I’ll tell you why. Las Vegas On our Las Vegas trip a few months ago, we had an amazing time. The place is dazzling. It’s bigger than Ben Hur in every way imaginable. The Outlet shopping saw us saving hundreds of dollars in clothing purchases as well as her handbags and Nike runners and the like. And we ended up seeing both a wonderful Cirque Du Soleil show as well as having all accommodation and food being paid for by the Mirage Hotel we stayed at!  We were exhausted by the whole trip as well as being introduced to how well the Americans can ‘do the show’, probably better than anything else I’ve witnessed. What we were struck with was the underlying poverty within Las Vegas. We were in one of the ...

10 Things You Can Do Right Now To Be a Lot Happier The majority of unhappiness involves the negative aspects of life permeating our brains. Those little demon voices start niggling away at whatever positive energy and thoughts we’re maintaining at the time. They say ‘Hey, don’t believe that, it’s worse than you think’ or ‘Do you really believe them? They’ve made a mistake in the past so it’s likely they’re screwing up now, don’t you think?’ Of course you do and here’s how to get it Erosion of your positive side gives focus on the negative. Leading you in a spiral downwards into un-happiness. Let’s change your thinking and focus on positive energies, leading you out and into happiness. Accept Your Own Responsibility There’s nothing worse than being on the receiving end of blame. And it’s a mirror strategy i.e. those that blame also are impacted by the negative. Accepting responsibility for failure ...