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Having a guy best friend is one of the best things a woman could have. It lets you enjoy all the perks without having the inconvenient emotional problems. The Next Level With Your Guy Best Friend: Learn the Cons

Not all humans are created equal. There are those that do, think and demonstrate caring, sharing and personal responsibility and then there are the ‘aliens’ who are pathological in their desire for personal gain. Beware of them as they live among us. There Are Aliens Living Amongst Us

Compliments can be received poorly or with sincere thanks. There are some things to be aware of. Here’s some relationship tips to cover off. I get in the poo with my 2nd wife Pamela Allen all the time – can never get it right! Poll: Should Everyone Tell It Like It Is OR Never Say You"re Sexy

Here’s how you can grab true love and happiness, earlier and faster. Use The Shopping List Method to retune your love radar to who you seek for your ultimate soulmate and partner. Find and Discover True Love - Faster and Earlier

By napalm, I mean the aroma of my wife laying next to me when I wake up. But I bet you’re also wondering what napalm has to do with relationship foundations ….. How The Smell Of Napalm In The Morning Creates Better Relationships

Nagging, sexual freedom and openness, honesty and equality are all area men wished women would improve in. We tell it like it is. 5 Things Women Do That Men Don"t Like

Does you partner (or you) give up at the first sign of confrontation? Here’s why and what you should do about Flight or Fight Syndrome. What Is Flight or Fight Syndrome In A Relationship?

Some couples find themselves getting into a slump even at the extremely early stage of the relationship. For other couples ……… How To Keep A Marriage Fresh – After 2 Months Or 20 Years

When it comes to improvements in our relationships, it’s always a good idea to have a few reminders. Reminders to keep us on track and maybe a few we’ve either forgotten about or even hadn’t thought about before. That’s what life is all about – improvement and... 7 Tips To Be A Good Spouse

I know my wife Pamela Allen will be raising her hand. And you know why? Because I"m built to help and the by-product of that is always looking for a solution. Hey, what can I say, that"s who I am. OK, my mind was recalling the same thing I"ve heard a number of times before. Try Empathy In Communication

My wife Pamela Allen mentioned a few unattached people that were actually looking for ‘someone in life’, I suggested that for most people, it was actually far easier to find the ideal residential home than it was to find a partner. Buying Real Estate Can Be Easier Than Getting A Lover

Get Ready, Get Set, GO! Like many older guys, I went through a divorce and did some serious soul searching afterwards. A confident person is always an attractive and desirable proposition to a prospective mate. 12 months of it, combined with lots (and I mean heaps) of research into relationships and the female identity. I was adamant my next serious relationship was going to be a winner on all the fronts I failed in the last time. Here’s my list on the major areas guys need to have in place before embarking on a seriously permanent and healthy relationship. Etch these five main relationship tips into your brain and you’ll be ready to tackle the world!   Your Own Life Women instinctively desire security and safety . One of those primeval characteristics in our lovely women. If they’re going to ‘mate’ and raise children in the cave with the dangers of woolly mammoths running around outside, their caveman needs to have confidence, strength and who they ...

We travel through life and encounter different people. Some we simply can’t stand to be around for more than a minute and others are in our lives forever, with the majority falling somewhere in-between the two extremes. Let’s have a look at the broad types of these relationships and then why you need to identify those in your current ‘circle of friends’ who you need to jettison. Toxic Relationship You’ll likely have had some friends (or even lovers) that fall into this type. When you first meet them, they have a quality you like and attach to. You know you’ve got some toxic relationships. What are you prepared to do about them? Usually though, and after a short while, they start giving you negative vibes, followed by them patching things up so you both remain friends. The toxic relationship sees this friendship repeat this cycle, over and over again. You fall into a pattern of acceptance . You know what’s happening to you though? Your positive ...

We travel through life and encounter different people. Some we simply can’t stand to be around for more than a minute and others are in our lives forever, with the majority falling somewhere in-between the two extremes. Let’s have a look at the broad types of these relationships and then why you need to identify those in your current ‘circle of friends’ who you need to jettison. Toxic Relationship You’ll likely have had some friends (or even lovers) that fall into this type. When you first meet them, they have a quality you like and attach to. You know you’ve got some toxic relationships. What are you prepared to do about them? Usually though, and after a short while, they start giving you negative vibes, followed by them patching things up so you both remain friends. The toxic relationship sees this friendship repeat this cycle, over and over again. You fall into a pattern of acceptance . You know what’s happening to you though? Your positive ...

Knowing When It’s Time One of the hardest things about marriage is knowing when to leave. For some, the answer is and will always be, “Never, no matter what, no matter how unhappy we are or how unsalvageable the relationship. We’re married, and that means forever.” For others, personal happiness is important, and an entire life spent in a miserable marriage doesn’t translate into time well spent. People divorce for any number of reasons: an affair abuse they married before they really knew each other they were never truly in love there was a “trap” involved someone changed after marriage the relationship wasn’t solid enough to make it through the stress of kids, career changes, new and different goals, moves someone expected someone else to change after marriage, etc. Main Reasons For Divorce All of the above break down into two pretty standard reasons for divorce : Someone has been hurt beyond repair The relationship was missing somethi...

We travel through life and encounter different people. Some we simply can’t stand to be around for more than a minute and others are in our lives forever, with the majority falling somewhere in-between the two extremes. Let’s have a look at the broad types of these relationships and then why you need to identify those in your current ‘circle of friends’ who you need to jettison. Toxic Relationship You’ll likely have had some friends (or even lovers) that fall into this type. When you first meet them, they have a quality you like and attach to. You know you’ve got some toxic relationships. What are you prepared to do about them? Usually though, and after a short while, they start giving you negative vibes, followed by them patching things up so you both remain friends. The toxic relationship sees this friendship repeat this cycle, over and over again. You fall into a pattern of acceptance . You know what’s happening to you though? Your positive ...