Or Have I? You Tell Me. Am I right or wrong in what i say? When it comes to love, I am a newbie. I am not experienced in the ways of love and romance . I have no idea what I am doing. I did not feel prepared at all to spend my life with another person, sharing everything with them. Who could? Who does? Nothing in all our experiences of youth can prepare us for something so drastic. Something so permanent. To spend, literally, the rest of your life with another seems like a daunting task. However in my years of marriage I have learned a few things: Fear is Powerful I get full of fear at times. Fear that I will mess it up somehow. That I have picked the wrong person. That I will get hurt. That I will be miserable. I know there are up and down times to every life, and yet I fear those down times with a passion. There is just something within me that whispers “you have done it all wrong and now you are stuck.” Than what? What do I do? There are Good Times Then the...