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To avoid divorce in marriage, here are the suggested tips to keep the marriage at work. Choice, sex, money and mutual respect all come into play here. Read on and learn … What Should Couples Do to Avoid Divorce?

It’s difficult for parent & child to alter their relationship. Our nature is to protect. Healthy relationships view each other’s motivations & feelings. Healthy Adult Relationships Between Children and Parents

The importance of communication is a relationship cannot be measured. You need to communicate and be understood by your partner if you want your needs met. The Importance of Communication In A Relationship

Is your love life in the bedroom lacking? Have you tried to enhance your relationship by sipping some alcohol to get you or your spouse in the mood? Is Alcohol Fueling The Intimacy In Your Relationship?

Compliments can be received poorly or with sincere thanks. There are some things to be aware of. Here’s some relationship tips to cover off. I get in the poo with my 2nd wife Pamela Allen all the time – can never get it right! Poll: Should Everyone Tell It Like It Is OR Never Say You"re Sexy

So it’s a relatively easy thing for me to be connected to people, within conversation. I’m an externally motivated person. . What about Internal people and relationships? Can You Be An Island In A Relationship

Any in life is improved by active cultivation. Romance and Love are no different. Here’s an easy to follow guide you can follow to get more. Romance and Love - How To Cultivate and Get More Relationship Balance

There are some struggles that come up in long distance relationships, but aren’t there struggles in relationships that are in the same town as well? Trust Is the Number 1 Deal Breaker in All Relationships. I have seen so many relationships fail for the lack of trust. Top 5 Ways to Make It In A Long Distance Relationship

I know my wife Pamela Allen will be raising her hand. And you know why? Because I"m built to help and the by-product of that is always looking for a solution. Hey, what can I say, that"s who I am. OK, my mind was recalling the same thing I"ve heard a number of times before. Try Empathy In Communication

When you understand personality types, you’ll gain insight in how to communicate with women better as well as men. Obviously a good thing for dating. How To Communicate Better with Women

A sad decline to the relationship magic that should have happened. Actions causes reactions. Has history repeated itself or simply a lack of wanting to win the same game? An End To What Was The Perfect Relationship

Behaving Badly or Just Poor Judgement? Let me start by first saying: “Violence towards anyone (be they man, woman or child) is plain wrong and can’t be tolerated by any society.” Why Male Bad Behavior? There’s a huge volume of publicised news around men behaving badly. I... Men Behaving Badly - Fact or Fiction?

“What’s your holistic message on relationships now and how does that differ from, say, 20 years ago?” Phil and Maude Mayes Maude : Our core message is that it is possible to have joyful, passionate, conflict free relationships. Twenty years ago this was a fantasy I had of relationships. Today it is a reality I live. Phil : The number one message is to let the other person be who they are. Don’t try to adjust or control them in any way. It never works in the long run; it leads to conflicts, it leaves the other person feeling unheard, unappreciated and under attack. In contrast , fully accepting the other person offers a space for them to grow, breathe, live and explore. Twenty years ago I could not have verbalized that, though to what extent I practiced it is hard to say. I know that in former relationships, I spent much energy defending and meeting my own needs. “What would you tell a young man about relationships?” Phil : I’ll start this by te...

Love is definitely a paradox. You can be in a relationship with love and still have an abundance of negative emotions swirling around everywhere. Think of those situations where you love your partner and you’re in an argument. There are moments when you could just scream! You could throw... Love or Passion?

I’m so freaking confused! What’s she mean when she talks? Huh? – Said Every Man Since The Dawn Of Time It’s not any kind of secret language , but still men have difficulty in understanding those simple words that women say. Well, it’s not actually words with secret meanings, but simple words and basic things. Since decades, men have remained wondering about women, their ways, their behavior and especially their words. Some men even think women to be mysterious creatures just because they didn’t know what women’s words meant. And now, to set the record straight, women have a few words for men. Of course, with explanations! Fine… The word every women uses to end an argument is ‘Fine.’ Just as you got the word ‘Fine’ out of her mouth, don’t think you won. She knows that she is right, but said it, to shut you up, as she realized that you will not abide by or acknowledge her superior judgment. So, wait for Round T...

Is The Zen of Relationships Your Vocal Cords? I have a relationship where I’m an external person (I much prefer to talk) and she’s an internal thinker (she prefers to mull things over in her head first). Both are fine but it raises the question or maybe questions as to how best to communicate. And let me tell you, this scenario has caused some conflict in working out disagreements. Thankfully, we both love each other deeply and life is a learning experience and always will be. Can everyone’s relationship be peaceful and open? What does it take for a couple to attain Zen and Harmony? The Easy Ones Well, some of the points above are so easy for both of us. Saying I Love You? That’s an easy one for most people already in a relationship and carrying an true expression Like something? Usually that’s pretty easy as well. Granted, it’s going to be different for everyone and we all have a thinking process that differs from our partner – I get that to...

Radically Reduce Stress Between 2 People Each day we are being subjected to colossal amount of stress. Avoid just accepting that stress is normal – change it if it is It affects every aspect of our lives including our relationships. Stress can give us a lot of pain, strife and tension that are not only harmful to our mental wellness but to our bodies as well. In extreme cases, one can face a seemingly insurmountable amount of stress when the relationship turns awry and you finally toss in the towel into the ring. Relationships should not end just because of stress. There are ways to cope with stress and still have a splendid relationship with the one you dearly love. It is just a matter of knowing how to handle stress effectively and manage it despite the conflicts and the challenges that happen each day. Analyze The Situation The first step to reduce the stress in a relation is to sit down and analyze what is happening. Analyse what’s causing the stress, as a first step H...