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Sex is emotional, spontaneous and physical; it is the opposite of logic. If you have trouble reaching climax consistently then meditation can really help. How Meditation Gave Me Better Orgasms

Is the Female G-Spot Really Unknown? The G-spot and Seagulls? Huh? Oh, right, you’re going to give us an analogy … carry on then … I’ve asked many people and often wonder when I’m looking out across Moreton Bay and the small beach which is across the road from where we live, ‘How come I never seem to see any baby seagulls?’. I mean, seagulls all appear to be the same size but I know babies of anything on this planet come in a small variety, at some point. It’s a total mystery. Which brings me to the G-Spot. The G-Spot can be difficult to find - keep looking :) Click To Tweet Like baby seagulls, the G-Spot can be particularly difficult to find, for a lot of guys. My Secret Admission: I’ll let you in on a secret of mine too. Up until my divorce and then doing my initial ‘how to make women happy’ research, I didn’t know the god-damn G-Thing existed either. And I’d bet you my first wife didn’t know she ...

Most women probably don’t even realise they’re not the mature sexual beings that they were meant to be. Do you know one of them? Why Women’s Sexuality Has Always Been Destroyed By M&Ms

Sex isn’t just for pleasure. Sex has real world heath benefits for both men and women. Here’s our Top 5 reasons why you need to have sex. Top 5 Health Benefits From Sex

We’ve all got sex relationship questions. Here’s 10 sex tips for a healthy relationship that you simply can’t miss out on. 10 Ways To Get More Love Making Going On

“What’s your holistic message on relationships now and how does that differ from, say, 20 years ago?” Phil and Maude Mayes Maude : Our core message is that it is possible to have joyful, passionate, conflict free relationships. Twenty years ago this was a fantasy I had of relationships. Today it is a reality I live. Phil : The number one message is to let the other person be who they are. Don’t try to adjust or control them in any way. It never works in the long run; it leads to conflicts, it leaves the other person feeling unheard, unappreciated and under attack. In contrast , fully accepting the other person offers a space for them to grow, breathe, live and explore. Twenty years ago I could not have verbalized that, though to what extent I practiced it is hard to say. I know that in former relationships, I spent much energy defending and meeting my own needs. “What would you tell a young man about relationships?” Phil : I’ll start this by te...