Give a Shit because it's worth the effort

When it's all said and done, relationships are freaking tough going.

You first get into one through a mutual attraction which is usually a visual one. For men, this is 99% true, for women, there are a few other consequential factors that form a foundation of stability.

But at the end of the day, it's very much a personal choice rather than a mutual one. I mean, you get into a relationship from a purely selfish point of view.

Guys might be sexual. Women might be security and/or protection and/or stability to raise kids.

BUT when you're in a relationship, it can all fall terribly apart unless both people care enough for the other for the situation to be totally shithouse but still care enough to continue and move forward. Move forward to get things fixed because their love is mutual and their love is solid.

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