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Fights between couples, whether married or not, are to be expected. It’s what you’re prepared to do next that is important. Will you save your relationship or simply willing to see it fail? Your choice. 7 Signs of a Relationship in Trouble

The importance of communication is a relationship cannot be measured. You need to communicate and be understood by your partner if you want your needs met. The Importance of Communication In A Relationship

Is your love life in the bedroom lacking? Have you tried to enhance your relationship by sipping some alcohol to get you or your spouse in the mood? Is Alcohol Fueling The Intimacy In Your Relationship?

Not all humans are created equal. There are those that do, think and demonstrate caring, sharing and personal responsibility and then there are the ‘aliens’ who are pathological in their desire for personal gain. Beware of them as they live among us. There Are Aliens Living Amongst Us

It’s never easy to live apart from those you love. Relocating overseas to find great working opportunities often lead many of us to leave families, friends, and love ones behind. However, things aren’t all hopeless. There are a lot of things you could do alleviate the loneliness. 9 Secrets to a Strong Long Distance Relationship

Does you partner (or you) give up at the first sign of confrontation? Here’s why and what you should do about Flight or Fight Syndrome. What Is Flight or Fight Syndrome In A Relationship?

I’ve known my wife for nearly seven years, and we’ve never argued. Ever. When I first noticed this, I was blown away, as this was completely new for me; every other relationship I had been in had involved conflict. A Successful Relationship

When it comes to improvements in our relationships, it’s always a good idea to have a few reminders. Reminders to keep us on track and maybe a few we’ve either forgotten about or even hadn’t thought about before. That’s what life is all about – improvement and... 7 Tips To Be A Good Spouse

Yesterday, I said some things I shouldn"t have to my wife Pam Papier. They were said in utter frustration from my point of view – in the heat of the moment. And I knew as soon as I said it, it was wrong and regrettable. Even Healthy Relationships Have Arguments

Healthy and loving relationship survive because you have your partner’s back and they have yours. It’s a simple choice and requires conscious effort. if (typeof(addthis_share) == "undefined") addthis_share = "passthrough":"twitter":"via":"GeekandJock"; var addthis_config = {"d... Do You Have Your Partner’s Back?

Look within your own self & discover it’s you that will be causing the majority of angst & heartache in making your relationship work, magically. Soulmates: How To Screw It All Up

The article gives 10 different ways to get you entertained while doing exercise, prolonging life and love and your relationship. Try some yourself. 10 Ways to Enjoy Exercise And Live To The Max

We travel through life and encounter different people. Some we simply can’t stand to be around for more than a minute and others are in our lives forever, with the majority falling somewhere in-between the two extremes. Let’s have a look at the broad types of these relationships and then why you need to identify those in your current ‘circle of friends’ who you need to jettison. Toxic Relationship You’ll likely have had some friends (or even lovers) that fall into this type. When you first meet them, they have a quality you like and attach to. You know you’ve got some toxic relationships. What are you prepared to do about them? Usually though, and after a short while, they start giving you negative vibes, followed by them patching things up so you both remain friends. The toxic relationship sees this friendship repeat this cycle, over and over again. You fall into a pattern of acceptance . You know what’s happening to you though? Your positive ...

We travel through life and encounter different people. Some we simply can’t stand to be around for more than a minute and others are in our lives forever, with the majority falling somewhere in-between the two extremes. Let’s have a look at the broad types of these relationships and then why you need to identify those in your current ‘circle of friends’ who you need to jettison. Toxic Relationship You’ll likely have had some friends (or even lovers) that fall into this type. When you first meet them, they have a quality you like and attach to. You know you’ve got some toxic relationships. What are you prepared to do about them? Usually though, and after a short while, they start giving you negative vibes, followed by them patching things up so you both remain friends. The toxic relationship sees this friendship repeat this cycle, over and over again. You fall into a pattern of acceptance . You know what’s happening to you though? Your positive ...

The Road To Happiness Happiness is a committed and loving relationship I read a lot about people preferring to be single and happy. Ss well as couples in a committed relationship who wouldn’t have it any other way. For the singles, I call bullshit to you. Male and Female Are Two Pieces To The Puzzle Despite my own opinion on this, we’re all in search of a mate and partner. We’re animals are our very core and like any other animal on the planet, our true meaning in life is to find a mate and operate as one. What makes us different is our brain and ability to block uncomfortable past events from hurting us in the future. The typical response from a painful past experience i.e our inner self doesn’t want to see us hurt again so we construct unconscious barriers that prevent a recurrence, like telling ourselves that we weren’t made to be with someone. That’s the downside to being free-thinking intelligent primates.   Are We Happier in Long-Term...

Is The Zen of Relationships Your Vocal Cords? I have a relationship where I’m an external person (I much prefer to talk) and she’s an internal thinker (she prefers to mull things over in her head first). Both are fine but it raises the question or maybe questions as to how best to communicate. And let me tell you, this scenario has caused some conflict in working out disagreements. Thankfully, we both love each other deeply and life is a learning experience and always will be. Can everyone’s relationship be peaceful and open? What does it take for a couple to attain Zen and Harmony? The Easy Ones Well, some of the points above are so easy for both of us. Saying I Love You? That’s an easy one for most people already in a relationship and carrying an true expression Like something? Usually that’s pretty easy as well. Granted, it’s going to be different for everyone and we all have a thinking process that differs from our partner – I get that to...

We travel through life and encounter different people. Some we simply can’t stand to be around for more than a minute and others are in our lives forever, with the majority falling somewhere in-between the two extremes. Let’s have a look at the broad types of these relationships and then why you need to identify those in your current ‘circle of friends’ who you need to jettison. Toxic Relationship You’ll likely have had some friends (or even lovers) that fall into this type. When you first meet them, they have a quality you like and attach to. You know you’ve got some toxic relationships. What are you prepared to do about them? Usually though, and after a short while, they start giving you negative vibes, followed by them patching things up so you both remain friends. The toxic relationship sees this friendship repeat this cycle, over and over again. You fall into a pattern of acceptance . You know what’s happening to you though? Your positive ...