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Planning a summer getaway? These hot ideas will surely make the flame of love burn brighter – and get the romance really going with your loved one. Sizzling Summer Getaway Ideas for Two

11 helpful and informative tips and tricks to increase your sex drive or libido. Improve sex drive in men and women drastically improves relationships. How To Increase Your Sex Drive or Libido

11 helpful and informative tips and tricks to increase your sex drive or libido. Improve sex drive in men and women drastically improves relationships. How To Increase Your Sex Drive or Libido

11 helpful and informative tips and tricks to increase your sex drive or libido. Improve sex drive in men and women drastically improves relationships. How To Increase Your Sex Drive or Libido

Getting back together with an ex has downsides. There are also good reasons why you might want to and here’s how you can go about doing it right. Getting Back with the Ex Love Who Got Away

Which Man Type Do You Like? Want some surfer dude? A man with a passion is always attractive, but a man whose living his passion is simply admirable, and sexy even. It means that he is audacious enough to really pursue what he loves doing and disciplined enough to strive for it. Athletes are known for this. And for women, meeting some of these physically attractive and mentally sharp individuals should be in their dating list. Learn more about passion, fun, and endurance as you get to know more about this must-meet types of male athletes. The Surfer Dude A guy whose hobbies include soaking under the sun and conquering the waves in nothing but boardshorts is cute enough, so a pro surfer is probably five times cuter! Not all ladies might dig this type of athlete, after all, he’s probably romancing the sea more than he should spending time with his girlfriend . But getting to know a surfer will allow you to create a deeper relationship with nature. Perhaps the best thing about surfing is

My Love Story Today is our 3rd wedding anniversary – the official and loving togetherness that is the two of us. She is one of those rare people in the world that you’re instantly attracted to. It was the same for me and at a much deeper level. A one of utter love and admiration … and a certain ‘knowing’. Apart from her natural beauty, she has an aura that envelopes me in such a trusting way. [youtube_video]PW5ZbfZ0a1w[/youtube_video] The Journey We’re two individual people so you know as well as I do that there’s going to be a ‘rub’. We’ve had some disastrous disagreements – every couple does. That’s what we learn from and grow from, as a foundation. We have different value systems as well as those hormonal reactions. The Growth I still vividly remember those earlier days. During that first week, on our first face to face date in Bali, we truly believed (as we do now) that we were soul-mates forever . You might be thinking that was just first-lovers’ words. Well, I’d agree with you t

 Woman to Woman Advice Want to rekindle that relationship passion? As a woman myself, I’d really love to hear other women’s views on my own ‘rekindling the spark’ tips so remember to let me know in the comments below, OK? Are you feeling bored with your significant other? Is your relationship in a rut? Never fear! It’s possible to replace relationship fizzle with sizzle. Try these five tips for putting the spark back in your relationship. Show Affection Kiss, hug and hold hands often, both when you’re alone and in public. Showing affection is the best way to build affection . The moment you stop making physical contact with your man is the moment the flame starts to die. Make it priority to hold hands at least once a day. Even if it’s just while you watch Netflix on the couch. Romantic Ideas Can Be Dates Too You’ll see a huge difference in your relationship if you go on a romantic date together once a week instead of always hanging out on the couch at home. Traditional romantic date

Fill Me Up with Your Questions On Who I Am Listen, I know I tend to rabbit on about relationships and advice for other people. That’s what we’re all about here and it’s a passion I have – ultimately, that’s your benefit :) I know you have some so quickly read through and ask one Well, now it’s your turn and your questions to me might very well be an eye-opener. An eye-opener for me, that is, in the answers I need to think about. OK, here’s a few starter questions. Please do have a read and modify any and even ask completely ‘of the wall’ ones too. There’s nothing that’s sacred or taboo – any question on who I am, what I believe in or what I think about something is PERFECTLY OK. Some Starter Ideas For You A – If I’m really in love. B – Who the last person I talked to and what was it about. C – What do I like most about kissing and cuddling. D – Any secret preferences for boys or girls and why. E – Do I have any piercings or tattoos. F – What are my Top 3 values in life. G – The last p

Divorce Lawyer Secrets Revealed! An estimated 1 million couples get divorced each year. Because there is such high demand for legal advice in this area, the field of attorneys offering to assist divorcing couples has broadened considerably. Many of these attorneys specialize in other areas of law. They are drawn to divorce cases because such cases are oftentimes lucrative . A divorce in which both parties are fighting about property division, custody rights, and child and spousal support can potentially cost tens of thousands of dollars. Divorcing couples would be well-served learning what to expect during and after a divorce. The education might prove surprising. The problem is, many lawyers are unwilling to share the details since doing so might adversely affect their practices. That makes the information hard to come by. Below, we’ll reveal several particulars that divorce attorneys rarely share with their clients – at least, not until they’re asked. The more you know, the better d

We travel through life and encounter different people. Some we simply can’t stand to be around for more than a minute and others are in our lives forever, with the majority falling somewhere in-between the two extremes. Let’s have a look at the broad types of these relationships and then why you need to identify those in your current ‘circle of friends’ who you need to jettison. Toxic Relationship You’ll likely have had some friends (or even lovers) that fall into this type. When you first meet them, they have a quality you like and attach to. You know you’ve got some toxic relationships. What are you prepared to do about them? Usually though, and after a short while, they start giving you negative vibes, followed by them patching things up so you both remain friends. The toxic relationship sees this friendship repeat this cycle, over and over again. You fall into a pattern of acceptance . You know what’s happening to you though? Your positive outlook level on life is in a downward sp

Divorce Is Not An Option! These days divorce is a pretty common occurrence, maybe even more so than a marriage actually lasting till death do you part. “Irreconcilable differences” is usually asserted as the underlying reason for divorce , and that largely is because people allow themselves to grow apart. When my husband and I got married we made a pact: divorce is not an option . To avoid the growing apart mishap, we’ve started doing a few things to keep the fire alive and burning in our marriage: Workout Together Getting sweaty together can keep you together There’s something inherently sexy about getting sweaty together . Feeling annoyed with your spouse? Run sprints together. You’ll be out of breath and riding an endorphin high by the end of it, and you probably will find that you care less about whatever argument was bothering you beforehand. Even if you don’t do the same workout as your spouse, just hit the gym together to break a sweat and get your blood pumping! You’ll both lea

Behaving Badly or Just Poor Judgement? Let me start by first saying: “Violence towards anyone (be they man, woman or child) is plain wrong and can’t be tolerated by any society.” Why Male Bad Behavior? There’s a huge volume of publicised news around men behaving badly. I... Men Behaving Badly - Fact or Fiction?

Divorce Lawyer Secrets Revealed! An estimated 1 million couples get divorced each year. Because there is such high demand for legal advice in this area, the field of attorneys offering to assist divorcing couples has broadened considerably. Many of these attorneys specialize in other areas of law. They are drawn to divorce cases because such cases are oftentimes lucrative . A divorce in which both parties are fighting about property division, custody rights, and child and spousal support can potentially cost tens of thousands of dollars. Divorcing couples would be well-served learning what to expect during and after a divorce. The education might prove surprising. The problem is, many lawyers are unwilling to share the details since doing so might adversely affect their practices. That makes the information hard to come by. Below, we’ll reveal several particulars that divorce attorneys rarely share with their clients – at least, not until they’re asked. The more you know, the better d

Relationships are good and great times. There are also times you could just leave and say "forget this whole damn thing". This article is about the latter – when you could quite literally give up the past good times, out of utter and complete frustration. In hindsight, the solution... 8 Steps To Go From Disaster to Reborne

We travel through life and encounter different people. Some we simply can’t stand to be around for more than a minute and others are in our lives forever, with the majority falling somewhere in-between the two extremes. Let’s have a look at the broad types of these relationships and then why you need to identify those in your current ‘circle of friends’ who you need to jettison. Toxic Relationship You’ll likely have had some friends (or even lovers) that fall into this type. When you first meet them, they have a quality you like and attach to. You know you’ve got some toxic relationships. What are you prepared to do about them? Usually though, and after a short while, they start giving you negative vibes, followed by them patching things up so you both remain friends. The toxic relationship sees this friendship repeat this cycle, over and over again. You fall into a pattern of acceptance . You know what’s happening to you though? Your positive outlook level on life is in a downward sp

Can There Really Be TOO Many Years? Age difference in relationships is a contentious issue. How much is too much of a gap? Dating can be a minefield. Age Differences: How Much Is Too Much?

What’s Hooter’s biggest staffing problems? Would you believe it’s about boobs, sexy bums and maintaining sultry curves? And they’re paying for it now. Too Fat to be a Hooters Girl? Hmmm

Leon was born in Maastricht, Netherlands. After Hotel management College he became a chef working in some of Europe’s finest restaurants. Later he ran his own restaurant called Bellefroid. In 2001 he moved to London to set up a fine food wholesale company selling to the top restaurants in... Interview With Leon Aarts

I know when I was dating, my male ego thought it would be marvellous to date younger women. After all, it’s one of those top male fantasies, ranking a little lower than the ‘threesome’ (which in itself is a silly fantasy as well)? The thought of dating someone much younger than... Should You Date Someone Younger?

“What’s your holistic message on relationships now and how does that differ from, say, 20 years ago?” Phil and Maude Mayes Maude : Our core message is that it is possible to have joyful, passionate, conflict free relationships. Twenty years ago this was a fantasy I had of relationships. Today it is a reality I live. Phil : The number one message is to let the other person be who they are. Don’t try to adjust or control them in any way. It never works in the long run; it leads to conflicts, it leaves the other person feeling unheard, unappreciated and under attack. In contrast , fully accepting the other person offers a space for them to grow, breathe, live and explore. Twenty years ago I could not have verbalized that, though to what extent I practiced it is hard to say. I know that in former relationships, I spent much energy defending and meeting my own needs. “What would you tell a young man about relationships?” Phil : I’ll start this by telling a story. I was in a relationship wi

Love is definitely a paradox. You can be in a relationship with love and still have an abundance of negative emotions swirling around everywhere. Think of those situations where you love your partner and you’re in an argument. There are moments when you could just scream! You could throw... Love or Passion?

Date night ideas should be thought of as simply wanting to have fun & stay young & vibrant, together. No matter what the age, use different dating ideas. Date Night Ideas for Couples Over 50 - Staying Young Together

Foundations of good relationships include trust, honesty, love, kindness, respect and mutual sharing, whether you have HIV or not. Find out how when HIV is involved. Relationship Advice If You Have HIV or AIDS

I Did It Myyyy Way! Masturbation is healthy and women can do it too ! Since my marriage fell apart and I ultimately got divorced, I have found myself changing, learning, and growing in ways I didn’t expect. Thanks to my loving friends and family , a solid therapist , and my blog, I have been staring down my past and sorting what it means for my future. Perhaps the most exciting and unexpected change in my life was posing the question: ‘Is Masturbation Healthy?’ and then my discovery of masturbation. I was in a sexless relationship for seven years. My ex-husband loved and still loves me, but he couldn’t be intimate with me, despite our efforts with erectile dysfunction drugs and multiple therapists. He rarely touched me in a sexual way, and when he did, it was clear that he was just waiting for it to be over. This was devastating. Now you would think I would take matters into my own hands and masturbate. Well, I really can’t explain why, but I didn’t. Once in awhile I would try, but

The Road To Happiness Happiness is a committed and loving relationship I read a lot about people preferring to be single and happy. Ss well as couples in a committed relationship who wouldn’t have it any other way. For the singles, I call bullshit to you. Male and Female Are Two Pieces To The Puzzle Despite my own opinion on this, we’re all in search of a mate and partner. We’re animals are our very core and like any other animal on the planet, our true meaning in life is to find a mate and operate as one. What makes us different is our brain and ability to block uncomfortable past events from hurting us in the future. The typical response from a painful past experience i.e our inner self doesn’t want to see us hurt again so we construct unconscious barriers that prevent a recurrence, like telling ourselves that we weren’t made to be with someone. That’s the downside to being free-thinking intelligent primates.   Are We Happier in Long-Term Relationships? PsychCentral.com (blog) I