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How To Destress Your Life These days we’re all constantly bombarded with messages to eat healthier, quit bad habits and get more exercise . It’s also important to look after your mental health. Your mental health is every bit as important as your bodily health, but there’s also a huge taboo around it that means many people are reluctant to seek help when they’re facing problems. Some tips on how best to destress your life Making sure that you have a healthy state of mind is an admirable thing to do. Stress can be a serious mental health problem for a lot of people. Most of us tend to shrug it off as the cost of living, or try to beat the stress into submission with alcohol, cigarettes or chocolate, which isn’t great for your mental or physical health. Fortunately there are other ways to deal with it if, well,, you feel like you’re having trouble dealing. Such as: Identifying What Is Making You Stressed Many people have triggers that can immediately wind them up, so that often you’ll

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Get Ready, Get Set, GO! Like many older guys, I went through a divorce and did some serious soul searching afterwards. 12 months of it, combined with lots (and I mean heaps) of research into relationships and the female identity. I was adamant my next serious relationship was going to be a winner on all the fronts I failed in the last time. Here’s my list on the major areas guys need to have in place before embarking on a seriously permanent and healthy relationship. Etch these five main relationship tips into your brain and you’ll be ready to tackle the world! Your Own Life Women instinctively desire security and safety . One of those primeval characteristics in our lovely women. If they’re going to ‘mate’ and raise children in the cave with the dangers of woolly mammoths running around outside, their caveman needs to have confidence, strength and who they are and what they’re on about in life. Do you? Be Emotionally Stable When we go through some of life’s shit, often it takes time

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Both Men and Women Will Cheat Cheating is a word that is often associated with men only. When a magazine advertises an article about a cheating spouse, the expectation is usually that the guilty party is male. However, recent studies on these cheating signs have shown that women are actually just as likely to cheat on their partners . Statistics vary widely about the number of couples in which one or both of the partners have cheated, but many put the figure at between 10 and 13%. What is surprising from these studies [1] is that the motivation behind the cheating doesn’t vary that much between men and women. Let’s look at the common signs It seems that when it comes to cheating, there are a bunch of common factors that lead to the infidelity. 1. Sex The need for sex was cited as the top reason for cheating. It is not necessarily the case that there is no sexual contact in the primary relationship, but that one party felt that they deserved more. One night stands and short-term affair

I really am getting seriously jaded by the entire dating game and wondered whether you can give me some advice. I’m 24 yo and been going round in circles with dating sites and meeting jerks. These so-called relationships rarely, if ever, last for more than the one dinner date. And I’ve been on dozens and dozens of them and they all seem to be idiots looking for a one-nighter without any hunt of anything steady. I’ve spoken to my girlfriends who are single too. They seem to be going through the same thing. What do you think we’re all doing wrong here? It can’t be that all men in the world lack feelings and all of them are only looking for a one night fling and move on to the next lady. What do you think? are all guys just after a one nighter?

But I Thought I Wanted A Perfect Relationship? You want the perfect relationship, don’t you? But what is it that you really want? Fact is, you don’t want a perfect relationship, at all – you really want your own level of security and want it with the person you’d like to spend the rest of your life with. Depending on your gender, security has a different meaning and therefore affects your behaviour and the interplay you have with your partner. Be Open to Discover your Partner And that’s where your first relationship friction starts to fester away. How Do You Both Get What You Want? This will sound easy … BUT … in reality, it’s a tough challenge for many couples, new or old. It’s open, honest communication with no hiding or BS – no agendas! Most of us might think we’re open. Most of us are kidding ourselves too because we view the world through our own rose coloured glasses which tends to taint reality and truth. So How Do We Start To Get What We Want? Small steps, enquiring questions

Sexy Women Come in All Shapes AND Ages I was asked the other day this question, given the fact I’d just been through the dating game which ended wonderfully with my marriage to my wife. Are Women Over 40 Still Considered Sexy? Well, I’m all for healthy relationship activities and, for me, I eventually discovered that younger women were actually far more immature for me. It turns out, for me, not to be sexy OR desirable. It’s great ego boost when I did date younger women. Younger women were on a different outlook than I was though. It is an interesting question and one I’d immediately answer a resounding ‘Yes’. Yes, with caveats though, since everyone has differences and the woman that you meet must certainly be the right person that you imagine is your perfect partner . What Are You Looking For? Now, if you are a guy out there dating, it’s important to map out the characteristics that you are looking for. The person who you ideally want to call ‘ soul mate ‘. Personally, I love mind

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