Knowing When It’s Time One of the hardest things about marriage is knowing when to leave. For some, the answer is and will always be, “Never, no matter what, no matter how unhappy we are or how unsalvageable the relationship. We’re married, and that means forever.” For others, personal happiness is important, and an entire life spent in a miserable marriage doesn’t translate into time well spent. People divorce for any number of reasons: an affair abuse they married before they really knew each other they were never truly in love there was a “trap” involved someone changed after marriage the relationship wasn’t solid enough to make it through the stress of kids, career changes, new and different goals, moves someone expected someone else to change after marriage, etc. Main Reasons For Divorce All of the above break down into two pretty standard reasons for divorce : Someone has been hurt beyond repair The relationship was missing somethi...