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Is the Female G-Spot Really Unknown? The G-spot and Seagulls? Huh? Oh, right, you’re going to give us an analogy … carry on then … I’ve asked many people and often wonder when I’m looking out across Moreton Bay and the small beach which is across the road from where we live, ‘How come I never seem to see any baby seagulls?’. I mean, seagulls all appear to be the same size but I know babies of anything on this planet come in a small variety, at some point. It’s a total mystery. Which brings me to the G-Spot. The G-Spot can be difficult to find - keep looking :) Click To Tweet Like baby seagulls, the G-Spot can be particularly difficult to find, for a lot of guys. My Secret Admission: I’ll let you in on a secret of mine too. Up until my divorce and then doing my initial ‘how to make women happy’ research, I didn’t know the god-damn G-Thing existed either. And I’d bet you my first wife didn’t know she ...

Here’s how you can grab true love and happiness, earlier and faster. Use The Shopping List Method to retune your love radar to who you seek for your ultimate soulmate and partner. Find and Discover True Love - Faster and Earlier

Nagging, sexual freedom and openness, honesty and equality are all area men wished women would improve in. We tell it like it is. 5 Things Women Do That Men Don"t Like

So it’s a relatively easy thing for me to be connected to people, within conversation. I’m an externally motivated person. . What about Internal people and relationships? Can You Be An Island In A Relationship

Building a love relationship requires action and attention. Do you know the right way to express your love? Take this action and be a winner. Do You Express Love?

Does you partner (or you) give up at the first sign of confrontation? Here’s why and what you should do about Flight or Fight Syndrome. What Is Flight or Fight Syndrome In A Relationship?

Most women probably don’t even realise they’re not the mature sexual beings that they were meant to be. Do you know one of them? Why Women’s Sexuality Has Always Been Destroyed By M&Ms

There are some struggles that come up in long distance relationships, but aren’t there struggles in relationships that are in the same town as well? Trust Is the Number 1 Deal Breaker in All Relationships. I have seen so many relationships fail for the lack of trust. Top 5 Ways to Make It In A Long Distance Relationship

I’ve known my wife for nearly seven years, and we’ve never argued. Ever. When I first noticed this, I was blown away, as this was completely new for me; every other relationship I had been in had involved conflict. A Successful Relationship

Keeping the Magic Alive (and Growing) in Your Relationship Most people (maybe everyone) starts out in a relationship filled with hope, passion and enthusiasm . Once you start looking at relationships, one thing becomes very obvious There’s a fuel that drives things forward and has us looking forward to each moment we are together with our new partner. We make plans for the future, hang out together and generally have a great time.   Terrible Relationship Statistics Yet statistically, our relationship has a very poor chance of survival. After the ‘honeymoon’ period is over we either settle into a routine which is comfortable at best, if not necessarily happy. At worst, we decide to call it quits and have a breakup of the relationship, usually with a fair bit of pain and sadness.   The Few Survivors This is the reality for most relationships. But there are a small percentage of couples who actually not only stay together, but for whom the relationship gets bet...

Yesterday, I said some things I shouldn"t have to my wife Pam Papier. They were said in utter frustration from my point of view – in the heat of the moment. And I knew as soon as I said it, it was wrong and regrettable. Even Healthy Relationships Have Arguments

Healthy and loving relationship survive because you have your partner’s back and they have yours. It’s a simple choice and requires conscious effort. if (typeof(addthis_share) == "undefined") addthis_share = "passthrough":"twitter":"via":"GeekandJock"; var addthis_config = {"d... Do You Have Your Partner’s Back?

Dating sites are big business and the market is so saturated that the competition to keep up is stiff. Companies are vying for financial gains by recruiting and maintaining new members. This is not to say that users can’t have success with dating sites, they just need to be on the lookout... How Dating Sites and Scammers use Fake Profiles

We travel through life and encounter different people. Some we simply can’t stand to be around for more than a minute and others are in our lives forever, with the majority falling somewhere in-between the two extremes. Let’s have a look at the broad types of these relationships and then why you need to identify those in your current ‘circle of friends’ who you need to jettison. Toxic Relationship You’ll likely have had some friends (or even lovers) that fall into this type. When you first meet them, they have a quality you like and attach to. You know you’ve got some toxic relationships. What are you prepared to do about them? Usually though, and after a short while, they start giving you negative vibes, followed by them patching things up so you both remain friends. The toxic relationship sees this friendship repeat this cycle, over and over again. You fall into a pattern of acceptance . You know what’s happening to you though? Your positive ...

We travel through life and encounter different people. Some we simply can’t stand to be around for more than a minute and others are in our lives forever, with the majority falling somewhere in-between the two extremes. Let’s have a look at the broad types of these relationships and then why you need to identify those in your current ‘circle of friends’ who you need to jettison. Toxic Relationship You’ll likely have had some friends (or even lovers) that fall into this type. When you first meet them, they have a quality you like and attach to. You know you’ve got some toxic relationships. What are you prepared to do about them? Usually though, and after a short while, they start giving you negative vibes, followed by them patching things up so you both remain friends. The toxic relationship sees this friendship repeat this cycle, over and over again. You fall into a pattern of acceptance . You know what’s happening to you though? Your positive ...

What’s Hooter’s biggest staffing problems? Would you believe it’s about boobs, sexy bums and maintaining sultry curves? And they’re paying for it now. Too Fat to be a Hooters Girl? Hmmm

I know when I was dating, my male ego thought it would be marvellous to date younger women. After all, it’s one of those top male fantasies, ranking a little lower than the ‘threesome’ (which in itself is a silly fantasy as well)? The thought of dating someone much younger than... Should You Date Someone Younger?

Is The Zen of Relationships Your Vocal Cords? I have a relationship where I’m an external person (I much prefer to talk) and she’s an internal thinker (she prefers to mull things over in her head first). Both are fine but it raises the question or maybe questions as to how best to communicate. And let me tell you, this scenario has caused some conflict in working out disagreements. Thankfully, we both love each other deeply and life is a learning experience and always will be. Can everyone’s relationship be peaceful and open? What does it take for a couple to attain Zen and Harmony? The Easy Ones Well, some of the points above are so easy for both of us. Saying I Love You? That’s an easy one for most people already in a relationship and carrying an true expression Like something? Usually that’s pretty easy as well. Granted, it’s going to be different for everyone and we all have a thinking process that differs from our partner – I get that to...

Do You Want More Self Confidence? Do you want a self confidence booster for yourself? Is the only thing missing from your life a little bit of confidence to propel you forward? Well the great thing is that this can be changed. There is no need to sit there wondering ‘what if’ because the answer is just around the corner. Anxiety can be a frustrating thing. It means that you know all the things you want and need to do but you just can’t bring yourself to do them. Not only can this hold you back in many aspects of your life such as work and relationships, but it can also lead to illnesses such as depression which can be very damaging to a person’s life. Self confidence has many attributes Don’t just wait for it to change though; take control over your self confidence issues and give some of these a go today: Consciously Focus On The Positives When self confidence is an issue, we tend to subconsciously think about all the negative parts of life. In our heads ...

We travel through life and encounter different people. Some we simply can’t stand to be around for more than a minute and others are in our lives forever, with the majority falling somewhere in-between the two extremes. Let’s have a look at the broad types of these relationships and then why you need to identify those in your current ‘circle of friends’ who you need to jettison. Toxic Relationship You’ll likely have had some friends (or even lovers) that fall into this type. When you first meet them, they have a quality you like and attach to. You know you’ve got some toxic relationships. What are you prepared to do about them? Usually though, and after a short while, they start giving you negative vibes, followed by them patching things up so you both remain friends. The toxic relationship sees this friendship repeat this cycle, over and over again. You fall into a pattern of acceptance . You know what’s happening to you though? Your positive ...