Is Love Really Worth the Effort?

As a relationship counsellor, I often get asked whether the effort people are putting into their failing relationship is worth it.

Without question, the answer I give is always a resounding YES! it is.

We're human beings and that means we're also made to live with another.

It allows us to get a balanced view on our perspectives and the views we have on the world.

In a recent article I wrote on a male's viewpoint on women, a single guy usually has an unbalanced view, typically as men are casting their eyes around to see if they can do better.

Better than what they've already got.

Unfortunately, what they have is usually always the better option.

What do you think?

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